Move on

On the treatment of idiopathic inter-cranial hypertension, 

Where the pressure inside the skull increases for no pathological cause, we treat it by opening a hole in the skull to relieve the pressure applied on the brain different structures, earlier this decade the removed part of the skull was preserved for later closure of the whole after the pressure resolves and decreases to normal again. 

It was preserved in the abdominal fat tissue to get blood supply and stay in normal body temperature. 

This preservation method is not used any more, for so many reasons including atrophy of the bone piece duo to decrease blood flow to it which basically means that the bone get smaller and when trying to put it back to place it cant cover the whole opened area, or infection either in area of insertion due to sudden switch in abdominal flora - which is the covering layer of bacteria that lives on or body surfaces and cavities and differs from one region to the other-

Or infection of the area of the bone in the brain when returning the bone to its place duo to the same reason which is an invasion of abdominal flora in the brain. 

Later on, the surgeons decided that, if we throw this piece and use later an artificial bone piece- a human-made bone-like structure- this can decrease a lot of the risks and suffering that patient and his might go through. The point of all of this patient is your life and the bone piece is a lot of people, relationships, things that we think we can't live without, and implanting it the abdominal area is the same action to hold on those people, stuff and relationships that lead to more cons than pros. As much as giving up parts that might look so loved to our hearts, so close to our souls that might sound hard even impossible to give up on it at the moment. It still sometimes more healthy to give up than to hold, things even loved things, even people can some time get smaller like an atrophic piece of bone that wont fit in your life and cause so much damage, or it will be as toxic as a wired flora in your life that can invade you life causing massive breakdowns.

This transformation in method should teach humans to give up on things when we have to give up regardless the pain that can be caused by giving up, you have to let go on things that you love but it is harmful to you, because sometimes the pain caused by letting go is nothing compared to pain of keep holding.

The way we deal with our dear pieces can determine how our life will go so make sure to let go when you should let go.

relationships

In relationships, you have to trust your partner, his decisions, his thought, and above of that his presence.That isn't only in your love life, it is in your work, in your friends' circle.And that means you trust yourself, you trust your choices knowing that no matter how far things can get mad Your relationships will survive because you are the one who chooses them.And you are a fighter with history for stupid decisions that made you smart enough to choose the right people in your life, you are a human being with a history of lose-lose relationships, with history of people who used you, who took advantage of you. The history that made you realize how to choose your partners in love and war, made you aware of your mistakes and how to avoid them. Made you logical enough to give people in your life the benefit of doubt, but without letting anyone use you. That is why exactly you have to trust your partner because he worth it and above all, he is your choice that worth to be trusted.

failure

Medicine is a sample, a small sample of real-life out there. And so failure is a part of the deal, a deal that you either take it all or leave it all. 

And as long as failure is a large piece of the cake, then you should learn how to accept it, not only except it but learn how to live with it and be proud of your failures. 

I used to be full of shame every-time one of my teachers gave me that speech about how bad you are to fail? As if what I did was the taboo action that we get raised for not doing it, it is bad to fail it is totally your right to feel mad about it and to feel anger on yourself and your mistakes, but what is it worse is to keep yourself stuck where you failed forever not allowing yourself to restart, or to give anyone the power of putting down your value and worth because of a mistake you have done. 

Be proud of your failure, it is what makes you who you are, be proud of them so no one could have the power or the authority to control your life and bully you just because you have failed. 

No one can live without failure otherwise we won’t know what success tastes like.